Throughout history, a feeling of emotion that everyone has been chasing after, trying to solve the meaning, describing itself, films, songs, books, works of art; love. What is love? How come? Do you ever fall in love more than once? Is the feeling that is love or love or obsession?
Experts emphasize that being in the obsession of love is not a happiness but a source of unhappiness.
Psychologist Sena Sivri, who tells that 10 basic questions that one should ask himself to understand that the feeling of emotion is love or obsession, the majority of these questions answered 'yes' and the feeling of dominance is not 'happiness' but 'uneasiness' in the opinion that someone should receive expert support.
According to the psychologist Sivri, to understand that feeling is love or obsession, the 10 questions that one should ask himself are:
1 - I think I'm in love constantly, every minute, every second.
2 - I want to keep in touch with him constantly. I'm having concentration problems.
3- I want to see you every day. If I can not, I think it's a problem with our relationship.
4- My old friends, away from the social circle, I do not see.
5- I am worried that every time I talk to her she is upset or she is afraid that my relationship is over.
6- I can not tolerate the slightest problem or argument, it makes me think that I will lose the relationship.
7- I do not think that she did not want to spend time with me, did not open the phone, stated an excuse, did not want me when she had another job.
8- I have a decline in school / work performance. I have difficulty concentrating on the things I do.
9- "I do not want to be with anyone," I think.
10- I can not trust the person I love.
CONCLUSION: Psychologist Sena Sivri says, "If a person gives many of the questions 'yes', if they have problems in their personal and social life and at the same time they have psychological problems related to this emotional situation, it is right to talk about obsession from obsessions. In healthy love, there is anxiety about loss of loved ones, the area covered by the mind and the increase in time, the excitement is present but the basic feeling prevailing is happiness. When the prevailing feeling turns into restlessness, it is not a healthy love there but an obsession! In this case, it must be taken that expert support is absolutely necessary. "